There is a saying that Russian women get married to foreigners only to leave their problem, economically unstable home country Russia and enjoy the benefits that newly-made Russian brides can be offered by the country of a foreign groom. What does really incite Russian beauties to this serious step in their lives? In fact, to change the country is a half of a matter, but to refuse from a usual way of living, the native language, your culture and tradition is not so easy as it seams. Partially, these statements are right. Many Russian women are ready to do this kind of contribution( we mean to somehow reject their usual old life) because their imagination draws a picture of their future life abroad as a fairy tale, which will be given to them by their overseas princes. Stability and confidence in tomorrow might be one of the main contents of this fairy tale.
A Russian girl who has never been abroad, initially expects that she will live in a magnificent mansion, with servants, drive Mercedes and have vacation on the most expensive island resorts of the world. It's wonderful – no doubt -if you, gentlemen, are the owners of millions and are ready to throw million of scarlet roses to the feet of your charming lady. But if you are an unpretentious foreigner with a sufficient income, you have to open your woman's eyes on what life she has to expect abroad. If we are having this type of article (we would say a little bit realistic), we would let ourselves give you advice - in order not to break her expectation you should reveal the world your future Russian wife is going to have with all its advantages and disadvantages. You definitely don't want to hear: "You deceived me!"
In no circumstance you should think that Russian women are mercenary! The idea of the untroubled life abroad takes its origin from the Soviet times, when Coca-cola in Russia was a wonder, and in Europe and America there was luxury! It's not the Russian ladies' fault to think so. It is one of the reasons why Russian beauties aim to get married to foreigners -confidence and stable life.
Let's single out a few more reason. Young Russian girls of the age 18 - 25, as a rule, don't have family experience; and this family abroad will be the first one for them. Family is going to be a wish they were thinking about since they were little girls - have a loving husband and children, have a family! Wonderful! On the top of that if a husband is a foreigner, the whole story has a slight taste of adventure. The idea itself of being married to a foreign man is "exotic"
A lot of women in their late 20th and early 30th have already been married and most likely have children from their previous marriage, which is considered by them an unhappy one. In this age Russian women already have a job, kids, some kind of stability, but there is no that "the only one" who could give them happiness and love. Female friends all to the last man repeat how happy the marriages with foreigner can be. So, many ladies think about starting serious relationships with western men. Many ladies are able to do that. And in the end everyone is happy: foreign men and Russian women
There is another reason why Russian women get married to men from the west. They just can't find their second halves among russian men. There is an opinion that Russian men drink too much alcohol, smoke, don't keep themselves fit. Their "sporty forms" leave much to be desired. In their 40th men from Russia look 10 or even 20 years older, while their oversea competitors are in great shape and take care of their health. To see a 20-year old girl next to a 40-year old man is not a surprise for anyone.
Do you want to hear another amusing fact for reflection why the way to marriage goes through the meeting with foreigners? Let us tell you that in Russia there are more women than men. The weak sex in Russia make up about 52,4%, while men are only 47,6%. That’s something to think about.
Every Russian bride has her own reason to show interest in getting married to a foreigner and starting relationships with him. But trust us, every lady would be the best wife and a lover, and a mother of your children. With a mutual feeling, respect and love you will not find a better wife than a Russian one.